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Message: [QUOTE="Porthoz, post: 2702560, member: 2221"] You actually are agreeing with me. Doing that bold part for my partner is not hard effort... I actually enjoy doing it for her sake, because she deserves it. However, when you no longer feel that way (and no, you don't see it coming, because you're invested in the relationship, and unconsciously already working hard to make it work), which really happens more often than not, although how long this takes can vary greatly from person to person, there is no reason to stay in a relationship, signed paper or not, regardless of how the other feels. And I personally feel that doing so out of duty to culture or religion, is incredibly stupid. What Huge says is probably right, because we are wired to seek the reward that the "hunt and consummation" bring, that's a biological fact on which our own preservation and subsistence rests. But it is also true that it's highly unlikely you will put yourself in a position to be that vulnerable, if you're in a good loving relationship. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, but I'm sure the former is valid for most of us. [/QUOTE]

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