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Message: [QUOTE="mrslong, post: 3133359, member: 1973"] Yeah and they're also skewed because, like I said, the people who actually report the rapes are way lower. I have 2 friends that were date raped and didn't report it....they went back to the guys place for a drink, decided they didn't want to have sex, the guy thought that was bullshit, so he raped them. No charges pressed because we all know the comments "yeah, but why did you go back to his place if you didn't want to have sex?" "why did you put yourself in a vulnerable position where you couldn't stop yourself from being raped" "why did you act like you wanted to have sex with him and then change your mind?" Etc, etc. I also volunteered as a Red Frog at schoolies a number of years ago. I counselled (not the job for me, a volunteer with no actual counselling training) a different girl who was raped every night I was down there. 1 of those was a traditional horror story, a bloke grabbed her walking down the road and dragged her into the bushes and raped her; the other nights were simply a boy and girl hooking up, he wants to have sex - she just wanted to make out or she changed her mind while they were making out, he decided she lead him on and he was entitled to finish the deed. That's 5 nights/5 young girls who have been used and abused. The only one that went to the police was the one where she was dragged off the street. --- The sad thing is, I'm going to have to teach my daughter not to put herself in a vulnerable position, not to make out with guys she doesn't know, not to go somewhere alone with a guy she doesn't want to have sex with, not to lead a guy on, not to be drunk and alone etc etc. And I have to teach my son not to rape women - that is, even if a woman wants to have sex with him at 10.00pm, if she changes her mind at 10.01pm that means that he can't force her to have sex with him. Outrageous! [/QUOTE]

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