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Message: [QUOTE="Kooly87, post: 3205096, member: 9326"] This is spot on. Honestly, everyone stuffs up in life, some more seriously than others and in Lodge's case it wasn't exactly a minor misdemeanour. In fact, it was at the fairly sharp end of the scale in most people's eyes. For some people his actions won't ever be forgivable and that's fair enough. I imagine the way domestic violence and violence in general has affected or impacted your life may have a big say on how you view Lodge and your willingness to forgive and forget such actions. That said, there is only one thing the perpetrator can do after something like this and that is work tirelessly to turn your life around and make amends. For some, this still won't redeem him in their eyes and as I said, that is fine and reasonable too, but for Lodge it's the only way back to redeeming himself in the eyes of the people who can forgive him, and you'd have to concede that he appears to be making sincere efforts to go down that path in a meaningful way. [/QUOTE]

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